Suicide Prevention
for Veterans, their Families, & Friends

VA SUICIDE PREVENTION HOTLINE - (800) 273-TALK (8255) - press 3 for veterans

VA MENTAL HEALTH HOME PAGE - www.mentalhealth.va.gov

CALL 9-1-1 OR TAKE THE VETERAN TO AN EMERGENCY ROOM IF:

• you are speaking over the phone or computer with a Veteran who expresses intent to harm self or others;
• a Veteran is displaying threatening behavior with a weapon or object that can be used as a weapon; or
• a Veteran tells you that they have overdosed on pills or other drugs, or if there are signs of physical injury.

Ask the Veteran

• To determine if a Veteran is suicidal it is helpful to:
  • Interact in a manner that communicates concern
  • know how to manage your own discomfort in order to directly address the issue
• The most difficult ACE step is asking.
  • Ask, "You look upset; have you thought of hurting yourself?"
  • Ask, "Do you wish you were dead?"
• When to ask the question:
  • Ask the question anytime you think the Veteran may be a danger to themself.

Care for the Veteran

• Show the Veteran that you care about what they are saying and that you are not passing judgment on what they think or feel.
  • Actively listen to their story.
  • Nod your head and encourage them to tell you more.
• Accept that their situation is serious and deserving of attention.

Escort the Veteran

• Do everything you can to encourage and expedite the Veteran getting help.
• Explain that there are trained professionals available to help.
• Suggest that treatment might help.